This is an important question, and one you should be asking all your DJ candidates. Hopefully, they have a really good answer!
Getting a dance floor started at a wedding can be challenging for a variety of reasons. Don’t let any other DJ tell you differently! The demographics of your audience, the day of the week, the time of day, the location and type of wedding venue… The list goes on and on.
One of those challenges, and perhaps the most difficult to overcome, is that no one wants to be the FIRST ONE to get out and dance!
Your DJ should be able to give you many different ideas on how to get your dance floor started on your wedding day. Most importantly, he or she should be able to get folks on the dance floor without resorting to cheesy or embarrassing routines, or putting anyone on the spot. It should be a natural-feeling progression for everyone involved, and all that is needed is to find creative ways to capitalize on your guests’ innate desire to help you celebrate. After all, that IS why they’re there in the first place!
I’ll focus on one such idea here, and this is just one suggestion to get your dance floor started.
Let’s imagine YOUR wedding day…
All eyes are on you because you just shared your first dance together, and emotions in the room are high. Your dance song fades, and I (yes ME, your DJ, RIGHT…?) remain silent and let nature take its course. The whole room erupts into applause!
Then, as this applause fades out, I congratulate you both. While you remain on the dance floor, I then invite ALL of the other couples present to JOIN YOU on the dance floor to share a slow dance with you on your wedding day!
VIOLA! You get an INSTANT packed dance floor, and it feels completely natural to everyone involved because this dance is something you wanted to share with them, and is something they’ll want to share with YOU on your special day! That IS why they’re there after all, right – to share such moments with you!
Even though you and I know it’s intentional and strategically planned, it doesn’t feel that way to your guests.
This idea is great for several reasons:
1) You get an INSTANT packed dance floor! After that slow song, I go right into an upbeat dance selection, and people keep moving. We start dancing the night away!
2) It gives older friends and family, and folks who might not consider themselves “dancers” a chance to get out on the floor and share a dance with their special someone. We’ll have more slow songs and all types of genres throughout the night, but this dance is a nice way for people to feel comfortable on the floor without feeling that all eyes are on them.
3) It makes a GREAT photo-op for your photographer! They get to start the night off with a fantastic shot of a PACKED dance floor with you sharing an intimate time with all who are closest to you!
There are other variations of this technique that I’d love to share with you, but this one is by far the most popular and commonly picked by my couples because of it’s effectiveness, and subtlety.
More than “just music.”
So you see, finding a great DJ is about more than finding someone to “play some music” and “make some announcements.”
It’s about finding someone who understands the psychology of your guests, and who knows how to guide the flow of your wedding from beginning to end to make sure that everyone is involved and has the best time possible at your wedding!
Sure, a DJ can get your dance floor filled without employing a creative strategy like the one above, but how long will it take them to get that first, second, and third person on the floor? How many different songs and genres will they cycle through – each one making the whole thing more and more awkward for you, and your guests – before they find one that will actually get someone to come to the floor? This is the type of situation you can easily avoid by making sure your DJ has a solid plan that MAKES SENSE when you ask them this important question.
Want more cool ideas like this?
I’ve got ’em, and I’d love to discuss them with you! My planning materials cover all types of different scenarios and key questions to help you & your guests get the most out of your wedding day celebration!
If you are in need of DJ & Entertainment services for your upcoming wedding, I’d be honored if you would consider my services.